Mar 30, 2014

Books on Marriage and Family Life

Here goes few books that are suggested by the scholars on the topic - Marriage and Family:

1. Garment of Love and Mercy -- Dr Bilal Philips

2. The Muslim Home : 40 Recommendations -- Salih Al Munajjid

3. The Brides Boon -- Mahmoud M Al-Istanbuli (suggested by Islamqa.info)

4. Like A Garment -- Dr. Yasir Qadhi

5. The Muslim Marriage Guide -- Ruqayyah Waris Maqsood (suggested by onIslam.net)

6. Etiquettes of Marriage and Wedding -- Shaykh Nasiruddin al-Albani

Mar 29, 2014

Surah Yusuf Tafsir by Shaykh Hamza Yusuf

 Wonderful Lectures:

- Surah Yusuf Tafsir - Shaykh Hamza Yusuf: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gx7ETeU6Sfg

- Du'a The weapon of the believers- Shaykh Hamza Yusuf: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3GE-9NWhPqk



Feb 23, 2014

Pearls of Islamic Scholars : Quotes [10]

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah:“Sins make the face ugly.”
(Ajawaab as-Saheeh 4/306-307)

Ibn-ul-Jawzee: "I never get enough of reading. When I see a book for the first time, it feels as if I see a treasure. If I say that I have read 20,000 Volumes, then it is (even) more and I'm still reading." (Adab Shar'iyyah 2/374)

Shaqeeq al-Balkhee said:“The sign of repentance (is): weeping at what has preceded, fear of falling into sin, leaving evil company and maintaining the company of the good.” (Siyar A'laam an-Nubalaa, 9/315)

Al-Fuḍayl ibn ʿAyyāḍ: "Do not mix except with those who have good character; for the one who has good character brings nothing but good, whilst the one who has bad character brings nothing but evil." (Al-Bayhaqī, Shuʿab Al-Īmān, #87044)

Feb 2, 2014

Gratitude : A Way of Life by [Video]

Gratitude : A Way of Life - it's a wonderful talk by Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan in RIS convention 2013. He has talked on the 7th verse of the 14th surah of the Quran. Allah has beautifully showed His mercy and assurance for us, the believers, who are constantly satisfied and showing gratitude to the mercy of the Lord of the universe.

Jan 25, 2014

​A Sermon from The Mercy to All the Worlds

​​Translated by Shaykh Hamza Yusuf

O community of Muslims, roll up your sleeves, for the matter is momentous. Prepare for an imminent journey. Garner provision now as the journey is long. Lighten your loads, for before you is an ascent most steep! Only those traveling lightly shall bear its climb.

O humanity, before the Hour comes, you will see wonders, vast tribulations, and difficult times. Darkness will prevail, and foulness will take the forefront. Those who enjoin right will be oppressed, and those who condemn vice will be suppressed.

Hence, strengthen your faith for that time, and cling to faith as you would clench on for dear life. Flee to righteous deeds, and force yourselves to perform them. Be patient during the difficult times, and you will eventually arrive to eternal bliss.

[published in facebook page of Shyakh Hamza Yusuf on 05/01/14]

Jan 24, 2014

deathbed [story]

I am lying on the bed. My children, brothers and sisters are all sitting by my bedside. Some close friends too are standing and overlooking my face. Suddenly I start breathing with long breaths. Someone among the people sitting in the room starts to recite, Surah Ya'siin. Everyone around repeats with the reciter. My breath starts to ease out. I am opening my eyes and looking at something. Angel of death has arrived. I am getting late for the eternal journey. My mouth has opened up. My brother is dropping some water into my mouth, it is perhaps the "Zam Zam" water which I had preserved for the very moment.

Then everyone starts to recite, "Laa'ilaaha illallaaha Muhammadur Rasoolullaah". I have lost my vision. I have lost my tongue, I have even lost my sensation but I can still hear. I can hear my loved ones weeping in grief. I'm not dead yet but I am almost lifeless. Angel of death makes the final act and takes my soul out with an intensive jerk. I have now left this world.

All my wealth, cars, properties, bank balances, contacts and connections are of no use now. My identity is my grave and I am being referred to as 'dead body'. My near ones are preparing my grave and some of them think it as inauspicious to keep the dead body inside the house for too long. The house which I myself built and lived in is shrinking in space for me. My bath is being prepared. I am taken out in the compound for the final bath. My bathroom fitted with expensive bath fittings is not for me now.

I am being wrapped in the white cotton shroud. For the travel to my grave. My expensive car is not for me now.

For what then did I amass so many worthless things. Why did I lie to earn the useless wealth. It is of no use to me. Woe to me for I wasted my life in vain. I forgot that my last journey is near and certain. Why did I sin so much ? Oh! I have lost my game.

Now stop imagining

This is going to happen one day with you and me. So be prepared. Good deeds will make your journey and the life of the Hereafter pleasant. Remember death. It is certain. It is so near. This world is just a short dream.

[collected from page of Shaikh Zahir Mahmood]

Pearls of Islamic Scholars [9]

Tilawah or recitation is an act in which your whole person, soul, heart, mind, tongue and body participates. In short your whole existence becomes involved. In reading the Qur'an, mind and body, reason and feeling lose their distinction; they become fused. As the tongue recites and words flow from the lips, the mind ponders, the heart reflects, the soul absorbs, tears well up in the eyes, the heart quakes and trembles, the skin shivers and softens just as the heart does, there no longer remains any duality between the two, even your hair may stand on end. And 'so he walks in a light from his Lord .. [khurram Murad : Way To The Quran]

​Sulayman bin Dawud: "Verily, the one who conquers his desire is stronger than the one who takes over a city alone." (Hilyah al-Awliya’ 6/1707)

Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen: "If he (the man) wants to live a happy life, he has to come home with an open chest and treat his children and his wife in the best possible way." (Fatâwâ ´Ulamâ’ al-Balad al-Harâm, p. 656)

Imam Sufyaan wrote in a letter: "Improve your secret and private life, and Allah will improve your public and social life. Make matters well between you and Allah, and Allah will make matters well between you and people. Work for the Hereafter, and Allah will be enough for you in your worldly concerns." (Biography of Imam Sufyaan ath-Thawri by Salaahud-Deen ibn Ali ibn Abdul-Maujood)

Tawḥīd is that all invocation, all cries, all appeals for aid, all hope and all summons for good and the warding off of evil have to be directed to God and no one else. —Muḥammad ‘Alī al-Shawkānī ​ [d. 1250/1834], al-Durr al-Naḍīd

"I used to think that the Muslim world had a spiritual problem. The crisis of the Muslim world is a crisis of knowledge, a crisis of the intellect." -- Hamza Yusuf [RIS knowledge retreat 2013]

Imam Sufyan al-Thawri was asked about the saying of Allah, "And man was created weak." What is meant by weak? He replied: "A women passes by a man, and the man can not prevent himself from looking at her, and he attains no benefit (by looking at her), is there anything weaker than this?" (Hilyatul Awliya 7/68)

Abu Hazim: "Beware of being found where Allah prohibited you & being absent from where Allah commanded you to be." (al-Hilyah v. 3 p. 234)

"Obstacles strengthen your faith and help you to obtain wisdom and skills." Professor Tariq Ramadan at #RIS2013 Convention

Kahmas b. al-Hasan said to me: ”I committed a sin for which I have been crying in regret for forty years.” I asked: ‘What was it?’ He said: ‘A friend of mine visited me once so I bought for him a fish (to serve it to him). After he ate I stood up and took a piece of mud from the wall of my neighbor so he could use to wash his hand. This sin [taking the piece of mud without asking the permission of my neighbor] is what I have been crying about for forty years.”  Related by ‘Amaarah b. Zhaadhaan  Hilyah al-Awliya’ (6/211)

al-Haarith ibn Qays:  "If you want to do something good, then do not put it off until tomorrow; if you are doing something pertaining to the Hereafter, then continue as long as you can; if you are praying and the Shaytaan tells you that you are showing off (by making it long), then make it longer."  (Az-Zuhd by Ibn al-Mubaarak, p. 12) 

​‘Abdullaah Ibn Mas’ood (radiyAllahu'anhu):“Indeed, I hate to see a man totally free, not doing anything from the work of the life of this world nor the Hereafter.” (Al-Hilyah 1/130)

Umar Ibn Al-Khattab:"Fear Allah, for whoever fears Him will never feel lonely." (Taqwa: The Provision of Believers, pg. 14)

Ibn al-Mubarak: "Nothing is better than seeking knowledge for Allah’s sake. And Allah hates nothing such as seeking knowledge for someone else's sake." (Adab Shar’iyyah 2/127)

Abdullah ibn Mubarak: ​ ​ “Whenever a man would see something from his brother that he dislikes, he would give him orders in private and forbid him in private. Conversely, he would be rewarded for him screening his brother and also rewarded for forbidding evil. As for today, whenever a man sees what he dislikes he angers his brother and unveils his screen.” (Raudatul ‘Uqaalaa, p. 197)  ​​

​​I have never struggled to rectify something that is more difficult to overcome than my soul; sometimes I win, and sometimes I lose.  —Sufyān al-Thawrī [d. 161H/778CE] (Read on pg 86, Salaahud-Deen ibn ‘Alee ibn ‘Abdul-Maujood, The Biography of Sufyaan Ath-Thauree. Darussalam Publishers. Riyadh:2005.)

Giving up positions of leadership is more difficult than giving up the world (and its pleasures).  —Sufyān al-Thawrī [d. 161H/778CE]  (Read on pg 92, Salaahud-Deen ibn ‘Alee ibn ‘Abdul-Maujood, The Biography of Sufyaan Ath-Thauree. Darussalam Publishers. Riyadh:2005.)

Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen: “It is fitting that a person always asks Allaah to purify his heart. He should devote his attention to the actions of the heart. The care a person gives to the actions of the heart must be more than the care he gives to the actions of the body–because everyone performs bodily actions, the believer and the hypocrite.” (Tafseer Surah al-Maa’idah, vol. 1, p. 410.)

A man said to al-Hasan al-Basri, “O Abu Sa’eed, I am complaining to you of the hardness of my heart.”  He said, “Soften it with dhikr. The more forgetful the heart is, the harder it becomes, but if a person remembers Allaah, that hardness softens as copper melts in the fire. Nothing can soften the hardness of the heart like the remembrance of Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted. Dhikr is healing and medicine for the heart. Forgetfulness is a disease, the cure for which is remembrance of Allaah.”  (Al-Waabil al-Sayib wa Raafi al-Kalim al-Tayyib, 142)

Imam Sufyan ibn ‘Uyaynah: “Honoring the prayer includes coming before the Iqamah is recited.” (Sifat as Safwah 2/235)

Abu Al-Ashhab said: ” ‘Umar passed by a garbage dump and stopped there, and it was as if his companions were bothered by it (the smell). He said, ‘This is the world of yours which you are so eager for and you weep over.’ ” ('Umar Ibn Al-Khattaab, His Life And Times, By 'Ali Muhammad As-Sallaabi, Vol. I, p. 288)

Muhammad bin Abdil-Baqi al-Hanbali: "The teacher is not allowed to be violent and the student is not allowed to be arrogant." (adab shar'iyyah 1/297)

"Force yourself to be humble until it becomes your second nature. Then it will be an unconscious activity" -- Hamza Yusuf [07/01/14]

"Only the sincere survive." - Omer Suleiman

“To love him (i.e. the Prophet ṣallallāhu `alayhi wa-sallam) is to follow him.”– Sufyān al-Thawrī

"Everything you desire exists with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,  So if you have Allah, you have everything you desire. If you don't have Allah then nothing you desire will make you happy." -- Hamza Yusuf  [14/01/14]

Imam Maalik ibn Anas: “Knowledge is not relaying an abundance of narrations, but rather it is light that Allah places in the heart.” [Al-Jaami' Li Akhlaaq Ar-Raawee Wa Aadaab As-Saami', 2/174]

Abu Muslim Al-Khawlaani: "The example of the scholars on earth is that of the stars in the sky: when they appear, the people are guided (they navigate using the stars), but when they disappear, the people get confused and lost." [Al-Bayhaqi, Al-Madkhal ila Al-Sunan Al-Kubra #287]

Abdullah ibn Masud (radiyAllahu'anhu): “It is more beloved to me to bite onto a red coal until it cools, than for me to say about something that Allaah has preordained, ‘Only if it didn’t happen.‘ “ [Az-Zuhd, of Abu Daawood, p. 136]

Imam Sufyaan Ath-Thawree: “Three qualities are from patience: not speaking about your misfortune, (not speaking about) your pain, and not praising yourself.” (Al-Hilyah, 6/389)

Ibn al-Jawzee: “Once I learned the virtue of marriage and having children, I read the whole Qur’aan and then asked Allaah, the Most High, to give me ten children. He answered my request and gave me five boys and five girls.”[Siyar al-A’laam an-Nubulaa, 21/375]

The evidence of a true journey towards God is that you go beyond your fears. This is the ultimate liberation. -- Tariq Ramadan [official FB page, 23 jan 14]

​Allah does not need your good deeds, you need your good deeds. -- Tariq Ramadan [21 jan, 2014]

Imaam al-Bukhari was asked: “What is it that strengthens one’s memory?“ He replied: “Constantly looking through books.“ [Jami' Bayan al-'Ilm wa Fadlih]

Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with him, said, In every tribulation there are three blessings:
1. It could be worse than what it is.
2. The tribulation is in your worldly matters and not in your religion.
3. The tribulation is in this world, and not in the hereafter.

[17 benefits of tribulations by Hamza Yusuf]

The Qur'an is not a book of abstract theories and cold ideas

The Qur'an is not a book of abstract theories and cold ideas, which one can grasp while seated in a cozy armchair. Nor is it merely a religious book like other religious books, whose meanings can be grasped in seminaries and oratories.

On the contrary, it is a Book which contains a message, an invitation, which generates a movement. The moment it began to be sent down, it impelled a quiet and pious man to abandon his life of solitude and confront the world that was living in rebellion against Allah. It inspired him to raise his voice against falsehood, and pitted him in a grim struggle against the lords of disbelief, evil and iniquity.

One after the other, from every home, it drew every pure and noble soul, and gathered them under the banner of truth. In every part of the country, it made all the mischievous and the corrupt to rise and wage war against the bearers of the truth.


THE MUSLIM HOME : 40 RECOMMENDATIONS

​​ A wonderful book on Family and living. written by Shaikh Salih Al-Munajjid.  Here you will find some of our important duties in home and some advices for having a good family. There are collection of Ayah and hadith that will make clear how to think and work for a happy Muslim family. 

THE MUSLIM HOME : 40 RECOMMENDATIONS  by Salih Al-Munajjid 


PDF download link :  http://almunajjid.com/attachment/books/english/40-recommendations.pdf

Jan 21, 2014

Getting married isn’t going to miraculously fix life problems

Getting married isn't going to miraculously fix life problems. It isn't always an out to loneliness or an escape from current situations. Folks must work on self-development without simply waiting for marriage to somehow magically change lives. 

Marriage can be a great tool of self-improvement and can help us change for the best, with God's will. A blissful marriage is amongst the greatest blessings that God can bestow on a person, and the creation of a family, and taking care of that family, is amongst the greatest acts of worship. But if single folks are not personally working on self-improvement now, how it be expected that it will be easier with the additional baggage of another individual who is also imperfect? 

Would you want to marry you? If not, how can you get to where you should be? If yes, how can you increase in your good qualities to get even better? 

-- Mariam Amer Ebrahimi

Dec 30, 2013

the show-off of haram romantic relations of people

never confuse yourself seeing the "show-off" of haram romantic relations of people around you. they all just act, their satisfaction is in showing. they satisfy their desires and lusts in that way. they pretend to be happy, but in deep inside their heart, they are restless, unhappy, confused, sad, anxious, tensed.

those who help each other in sins end up hating each other eventually.

peace lies in confidence, trust, assurance. when you sacrifice for Allah, know you are never lost, never forgotten. Rather the Lord of the universe, the Creator of everything is seeing and understanding your every moment. He is there with assurance for you when you are truthful, honest. Allah listens you unsaid words of the heart, Allah knows every urge of your passionate heart, Allah sees your every drop of tears. Allah will certainly reward you, He is the ultimate Giver. Allah will give serenity, peace, happiness, tranquility to those hearts that love Him and sacrifices as the proof of their love. the best way of proving our love is to sacrifice for Him. Loving the Affectionate al-wadud is the ultimate assurance of being loved.

[27 dec, 13]

Pearls of Islamic Scholars [8]

Overconfidence can lead to arrogance and too much humility can render you incapable of accomplishing anything. Islam is a path in between. -- Nouman Ali Khan

A man came to A’isha (radiyAllahu'anha) and asked: “When will I know that I am pious?” She said: “When you realize that you are a sinner”. He said: “And when will I realize I am a sinner?” She replied: “When you think you are pious”. (Tanbeeh Al-Ghafileen, 251)
​Imam Sufyan ibn `Uyaynah:“Don’t ever leave off making Du’aa nor allow what [bad deeds] you commit to prevent you from it, for indeed Allah answered the Du’aa of Iblees (the Devil) and he is the most evil of creation [when he said to Allah]

“‘Grant me respite until the Day in which they will be resurrected.’ He (Allah) said, ‘Indeed you are from those who are granted respite.’ ” [7:14-15]“
(Ash-Shu'ab, 2/1147)

​​Are you trying to terrify me with thoughts of poverty, when the only thing that Sufyān fears is that the treasures of this world should be poured down upon him!  —Sufyān al-Thawrī [d. 161H/778CE]

(Read on pg 90, Salaahud-Deen ibn ‘Alee ibn ‘Abdul-Maujood, The Biography of Sufyaan Ath-Thauree. Darussalam Publishers. Riyadh:2005.)

​The major sins are the sins one commits, then considers them insignificant and underrates them.—al-Awza’i

Dec 23, 2013

Means to Develop Concern for Akhirah

​You might ask me as to what is the method to acquire this quality and what are its requirements? I would again say there are two methods, reflective and practical.

The reflective method is that you should not be contented only after declaring 'I believe in Hereafter' rather make it a habit to study the Qur'an fully grasping its spirit and meaning. This method of studying the Qur'an will gradually develop such a conviction in Hereafter as if you have seen it with your own eyes. There is not perhaps a single page in the Qur'an where the Hereafter is not mentioned in one way or the other. At places you will find the Hereafter portrayed in such a detail as if an eye witness account is being reported. At many places in the Qur'an, life in Hereafter is projected in such an exquisite manner that the-reader feels himself present as an observer. Only if the camouflage of this world is removed, one can witness with his own eyes whatever is being narrated in the Qur'an Hence continuous study of the Qur'an with full comprehension can gradually raise one to a position where the concern for the Hereafter gets complete hold of his mind, and he begins to feel actually at all times that he is to prepare himself in this temporary worldly life for his permanent abode of life after death.

This attitude and perspective gets stronger by the study of the Hadith wherein details about life after death are often described just like eye-witness accounts. This reminds us of the fact how the conviction and firm belief in the Hereafter dominated the lives of the Prophet (p) and his companions.

This conviction in Hereafter is further strengthened by visits to graveyards which should be made solely to achieve the purpose of remembering ones own end as advised by the Prophet (p). One should remember while living in this world of desires and passions that a day will come when he will also depart from this world like his predecessors. However one should be careful that those tombs and shrines will not serve any purpose which the wayward people claim to be the centres where every wish is granted and all problems are resolved. Instead you should visit she graveyards of the common men or the grand mausoleums of monarchs deprived of the pomp and show of body-guards and aide de-camps to make the people observe the formalities in the presence of such monarchs.

Now let us take the practical method. While living in this world and taking part in the affairs of your community, friends, acquaintances, your city, country or in the matters of your own efforts. Outside help can only be acquired by profession or finances you often find yourself at the crossroads. Belief in the life Hereafter calls you towards one way while material gains and interests press you to go the other way. Try your level best to proceed on the way mentioned first. If you nave chosen the other way because of any weakness or unawareness retrace your steps as soon as you realise the mistake, unmindful of how far have you gone the wrong way. Look unto yourself and try to find out how often did the worldly interests and attractions succeed in getting you absorbed in it and how many times did you succeed in avoiding detraction from the right path, and consideration for the life Hereafter dominated over you. This assessment of your own self shall tell you exactly how much your concern for the life Hereafter has increased and to what extent you are required to make up the deficiency. Whatever deficiency you feel, try hard to make it up keeping away from the companionship of materialists and by developing friendship with the pious people who prefer the gains of the life Hereafter over this world. But remember, there is no way yet known to develop or discard any quality in you without your own efforts or potentials.

-- Abul A'la Maududi

collected from this link : http://web.youngmuslims.ca/online_library/books/hidayat/Hidayat7.html

Dec 8, 2013

​ Hope: Belief in Allah's Powers in light :: Mokhtar Maghraoui

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Hope: Belief in Allah's Powers in light of Surah Yusuf, Sh. Mokhtar Maghraoui

lecture given in ICNA convention. Click here to watch on youtube